As I made my way over to Riverside Church’s website, I did not get very far for I was intrigued by their logo that is placed at the top right corner of their contemporary website. There is a tree that has a before and after phase. On the left there is a tree that is barren. On the right a different story is depected. There is a river that meets the tree at the roots. The river, which I can only assume alludes to the river of life, brings new life to the tree that has branches are baring green leaves.
As I dug further it became apparent that Riverside Church is very intentional about being missional. They define missional in four, unique divisions:
The word missional reflects a relational focus
The word missional pronounces a rational stamina
The word missional reflects a humbled attentiveness to God
The word missional refers to a stamina for diverse neighbors.
In this last point, missional refers to a stamina of diverse neighbors, they realize that this may bring forward the reality of relational awkwardness. Yet it is this relational awkwardness that Jesus calls us to be apart of. Unlike Jesus, we may not be comfortable with the diversity of different skin colors, languages and cultural histories, which could bring different emotions, including awkwardness.
I am left wondering, what is not awkward about community?
Our cultural and our history have destroyed us. We are left to think of all the things about community that are awkward or difficult. I remember the time when I was going through formal recruitment in the Greek system at Roanoke College. With my small group of 10 to 15 potential new members, we were shifted from sorority to sorority. As much as were told to be relaxed and stay natural, there was still this element of awkwardness. We wanted the other organizations to want us, and in the say way the organizations wanted us, the potential new members, to like them. It was awkward.
In the same way, there is awkwardness with finding community within the church.
Just like my experience in Greek recruitment, the same can be apparent with the church. The church wants people to want them, but a potential new member of the community does not want to feel like an outcast. This too has the ability to bring on feelings of awkwardness.
I do not think there is just one or two things to blame for this element of awkwardness. Riverside acknowledges, through the lyrics of Coldplay, that we are often left lost in this world. —“I just got lost, every river that I’ve tried to cross, and every door I ever tried was locked.” So, the question comes when we are left to respond to the call of what do we do now. We have people that have come to our community that have had a feeling of being lost. How do we allow them to experience the hope of community?
I doubt there is a solution to disregard that awkwardness. One thing Riverside is doing is providing ways for people to break through that awkwardness in order to grow in relationship with one another. They have various ways for college students and recent graduates to assimilate themselves into the faith community. They have a program called Honest Questions which tackles a difficult question at a local Pub. They have care teams in a variety of different of areas, as well as Bible Studies for an array of audiences. And a separate website for youth shares they are committed to creating an environment that allows young people to have honest and real relationships, while sharing the gospel. My favorite of all their programming, an Art Gallery that is “to encourage artists and to facilitate an understanding and enjoyment of art in our community.”
Maybe the first step of breaking through that awkwardness is by giving people the opportunity to be in relationship with one another, as well as living out the reality that what people need from community is different. Like Riverside noted, missional refers to diverse neighbors. In order to be open to diversity there needs to be an honest realization that opportunities and experiences are uniquely different for people. I’d also like to think it was awkward between Jesus and his disciples at first, but Jesus did not give up. He continued to work through that awkwardness in order that we see a life of community and discipleship from him and his followers.
As I dug further it became apparent that Riverside Church is very intentional about being missional. They define missional in four, unique divisions:
The word missional reflects a relational focus
The word missional pronounces a rational stamina
The word missional reflects a humbled attentiveness to God
The word missional refers to a stamina for diverse neighbors.
In this last point, missional refers to a stamina of diverse neighbors, they realize that this may bring forward the reality of relational awkwardness. Yet it is this relational awkwardness that Jesus calls us to be apart of. Unlike Jesus, we may not be comfortable with the diversity of different skin colors, languages and cultural histories, which could bring different emotions, including awkwardness.
I am left wondering, what is not awkward about community?
Our cultural and our history have destroyed us. We are left to think of all the things about community that are awkward or difficult. I remember the time when I was going through formal recruitment in the Greek system at Roanoke College. With my small group of 10 to 15 potential new members, we were shifted from sorority to sorority. As much as were told to be relaxed and stay natural, there was still this element of awkwardness. We wanted the other organizations to want us, and in the say way the organizations wanted us, the potential new members, to like them. It was awkward.
In the same way, there is awkwardness with finding community within the church.
Just like my experience in Greek recruitment, the same can be apparent with the church. The church wants people to want them, but a potential new member of the community does not want to feel like an outcast. This too has the ability to bring on feelings of awkwardness.
I do not think there is just one or two things to blame for this element of awkwardness. Riverside acknowledges, through the lyrics of Coldplay, that we are often left lost in this world. —“I just got lost, every river that I’ve tried to cross, and every door I ever tried was locked.” So, the question comes when we are left to respond to the call of what do we do now. We have people that have come to our community that have had a feeling of being lost. How do we allow them to experience the hope of community?
I doubt there is a solution to disregard that awkwardness. One thing Riverside is doing is providing ways for people to break through that awkwardness in order to grow in relationship with one another. They have various ways for college students and recent graduates to assimilate themselves into the faith community. They have a program called Honest Questions which tackles a difficult question at a local Pub. They have care teams in a variety of different of areas, as well as Bible Studies for an array of audiences. And a separate website for youth shares they are committed to creating an environment that allows young people to have honest and real relationships, while sharing the gospel. My favorite of all their programming, an Art Gallery that is “to encourage artists and to facilitate an understanding and enjoyment of art in our community.”
Maybe the first step of breaking through that awkwardness is by giving people the opportunity to be in relationship with one another, as well as living out the reality that what people need from community is different. Like Riverside noted, missional refers to diverse neighbors. In order to be open to diversity there needs to be an honest realization that opportunities and experiences are uniquely different for people. I’d also like to think it was awkward between Jesus and his disciples at first, but Jesus did not give up. He continued to work through that awkwardness in order that we see a life of community and discipleship from him and his followers.
That river of life is not going to give up on us. It continues to flow and it continues to bear good fruit. It breaks through that awkwardness in order for community to form.
Why would I visit?
My least favorite band is the whole world, and my best friend’s favorite, is Coldplay. Throughout their website they found ways to quote Coldplay multiple times. As much as I do not want to hold that against them, I may. Something so simple as sharing lyrics from one band, seems to imply one audience. After spending time looking through their website I am also left thinking that they have a very defined audience in mind when they looked to their mission.
If I negate the overuse of Coldplay lyrics, I enjoy that Riverside is very articulate of what it means to be missional. It is a word that I think the church is often scared to use. And maybe they are very afraid of the world because they are afraid of what the word calls us to do. That call is difficult and like they noted, awkward.
The one thing I love, and may be my favorite thing I have seen throughout this study, is the Riverside Art Gallery. My passion is art. My love is art and it can easily be a struggle to figure out what role do artists and art have in the church. Part of the reality is that art tells a different story for all people. Riverside is giving individuals the time and place to tell their story through their creative muse.
Why would I visit?
My least favorite band is the whole world, and my best friend’s favorite, is Coldplay. Throughout their website they found ways to quote Coldplay multiple times. As much as I do not want to hold that against them, I may. Something so simple as sharing lyrics from one band, seems to imply one audience. After spending time looking through their website I am also left thinking that they have a very defined audience in mind when they looked to their mission.
If I negate the overuse of Coldplay lyrics, I enjoy that Riverside is very articulate of what it means to be missional. It is a word that I think the church is often scared to use. And maybe they are very afraid of the world because they are afraid of what the word calls us to do. That call is difficult and like they noted, awkward.
The one thing I love, and may be my favorite thing I have seen throughout this study, is the Riverside Art Gallery. My passion is art. My love is art and it can easily be a struggle to figure out what role do artists and art have in the church. Part of the reality is that art tells a different story for all people. Riverside is giving individuals the time and place to tell their story through their creative muse.
What can they tell us about urban community in five words/phrases:
missional
responsive to culture
honest
contemporary/modern
identity


